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"Me, Too . . ."
Adults talk about learning to read.
Learn By Teaching
Emily Brown
March 1997
A picture of comfortable dignity, Emily Brown does not
look like a revolutionary. Yet the soft spoken, unassuming woman has spent
much of her adult life fighting for human justice. Born in the deep south,
her soft, Georgian gentility wraps the stubborn toughness of a social
activist. Her latest venture, becoming a tutor for the Adult Literacy
Connection, is merely another way Emily continues her fight.
As a white girl growing up in Mansfield, a small town
in rural Georgia, she had a particular view of her segregated world. "Oh
yes, we were part of the system," she remembers. "We had tenant
farmers and black employees. I've always been comfortable around other
races. We had constant contact everyday growing up. And I never thought
a thing about it! It was segregated, but friendly. Everyone helped each
other."
As an adult, she was shocked and saddened by the poverty
she often saw in the black community. She became involved in the civil
rights movement. She became particularly active via the YWCA organization,
which was at the forefront of racial and human justice. As a young teacher,
and later as a wife of a physician, she saw first hand the cycle of poverty,
illiteracy, and discrimination. She has worked her whole life to change
it through volunteerism at a local and national level. Even with this
background, being a one-on-one literacy tutor is a different role for
Emily. She admits she is trying to slow down a bit, and serves on fewer
boards and committees. "In some ways, it's easier to write a check,
or chair a committee. You feel you can help a larger group of people,"
she explains. "But on many levels, helping one person, on an individual
level is more satisfying."
Having been a literacy tutor for nearly two years now,
Emily currently tutors a black man. He too was raised in the South and
immigrated North. She became acquainted with him and his family several
years ago. Though he has an excellent job at a local factory, he also
worked as a handyman for the Browns'. They became friends, and soon Emily
learned the man had quit school in the fourth grade. Like many black youngsters
in Mississippi at the time, the man was pulled out of school to work in
the fields. Now in his 50's, with a family of his own, he longs to earn
his GED. Emily suggested the Literacy Connection. He was interested, but
insisted he could only do it if Emily agreed to be his tutor. A team was
born.
It is hard to resist the obvious comparisons, at least
on the surface, to the characters in "Driving Miss Daisy." Still
the relationship is far more significant for all parties involved. Though
couched in polite Southern manners, Emily's admiration for her learner
is obvious.
"He's a very private man," explains Emily,
"very reserved about personal matters. But it's such a thrill to
see him succeed. He's progressed rapidly in reading and writing. We do
mutual reading. He reads short books now, and writes synopses of them.
We've written letters, friendly letters and business type both. Oh, and
he discovered crossword puzzles! He's just crazy about them."
Though clearly a woman unaccustomed to bragging, Emily's
delight in her learner's success is evidence of their special friendship.
"Well, that's just it," she agrees. "That friendship that
grows between tutor and learner is what makes the program so special-and
so effective. It's thrilling, really."
Listening to Emily, it's difficult to say who, the tutor
or the learner, gets more out of the experience. In typical no-nonsense
fashion, she has some advice for anyone thinking about trying the program,
learners and tutors alike. "Go to it! Do it! Emily insists. "It's
a very fulfilling kind of thing. My goodness, it's just wonderful."
Interview by Kim Ross-Polito
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